James and I used condoms for the first month of our sex lives, then I got on the Nuvaring and we've been off the condoms for eight months now. No babies for us. Birth control is very effective if you use it properly, and yes accidents do happen but I'll vouch for the Nuvaring, as much as we do it if it was going to fail, then it would of happened by now.
Go ahead and ask her, if y'all are monogamous then I don't see why you wouldn't want to get off the condoms. As long as you're open with one another it should be fine.
Good luck
