Assuming you've been in this relationship long enough to see that there's a chance at this being long-term (or it is long term), and that you're both committed (not sleeping with someone else), I don't see a reason why you shouldn't leave the condom in the drawer.
I'd just ask the question to see what she thinks. If it's a problem for her, maybe we can address her actual concerns.
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