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And don't let her feel your frustration - That only makes her more tense about the matter. At the risk of sounding "touchy-feely" about the matter I should tell you to just keep enjoying experimenting with sexual contact without intercourse. She'll let you know when she's ready - and usually it's a spontaneous impulse at the height of excitement.
I had an ex-girlfriend who was a virgin once. She was nervous about intercourse and I never made a big deal about it. We had fun with everything else until, one night in the middle of everything she said, "I'm ready." That's how it happens.
I know it's frustrating if you're a virgin, too. But some day you'll learn that intercourse itself isn't everything. There are whole worlds of foreplay and afterplay to discover with her.
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"I do believe that, where there is only a choice between cowardice and violence, I would advise violence. Thus when my eldest son asked me what he should have done, had he been present when I was almost fatally assaulted in 1908, whether he should have run away and seen me killed or whether he should have used his physical force which he could and wanted to use, and defended me, I told him that it was his duty to defend me even by using violence." - Mahatma Ghandi
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