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I forgave four times. Only because it was worth it.
I guess I'm the wrong person to ask... but, don't contact her if you "just want to see how things go/are/seem, etc." If you really and truly process the previous situation and can forgive yourself and move forward, then (and only then) think about contacting her. Don't process the Idea of Her. She'll never be the Idea/Ideal you want. Remember the relationship and what went wrong. Process that and see if it's worth it. And remember, she may have called your name in surprise... not because she ever wanted/expected to see you again.
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Here's how life works: you either get to ask for an apology or you get to shoot people. Not both. House
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Just realize that you're armed with smart but heavily outnumbered.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand
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