Daniel is probably right, dear one...
but that said, you were right when you finally realised that love is a verb. And it is always changing and metamorphasizing. Foreget the past unimportant travel days or prior months .... and enjoy the here & now. You might be able to ressurect your marriage esp. if the two of you are totally into the new baby, (it's a new beginning!!) but don't forget that you are each separate individuals who need space, freedom, peace and total openess. You two just might have the strength 7 love to evolve into a place of total foregiveness and honesty. Babies can help with the magic. They are a miracle. The best one there is. Keep talking & being truthful and patient.
God Bless You Three,
hunnychile