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Originally Posted by Hektore
What you want out of life is what you want out of life. Nobody is going to see to it that you're happy but you. If she decides she can't be happy without having her own children without the risk of autism she is perfectly entitled to go try and make that happen. She needs to decide what is more important to her, you or her ideal reproductive future. Ethical or unethical doesn't really matter, it's not going to work anyway if it makes her truly unhappy.
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I really like this statment that Hektore made. The decision is ultimately her's despite what you have to say about it.
Given what you've told us after this point, I feel like you would be better of without her. She has dishonored you by saying that you may not be a 'worthy' person because of a social disorder that may, or may not manifest (in varying degrees of severity). My best friend's little brother has the same condition, and it can be aggrivating, but it's definitely something that can be dealt with.
She has shown you a great amount of disrespect by telling you that she would stay with you if she were baren. To me this reads, "I'm more worthy of having children than you" Which I interpret as a grave dishonor. It's not about worth... and life has never been about worthiness.
I'm going to stop before I get too angry.