What you have sounds like Asperger's, which isn't always passed down to children. I mean, there are so many ways for kids to be born autistic, and not all of them have to do with parents being carriers (I have a cousin who has Asperger's, genius like you, and I WANT him to have children someday... because why the hell not?). It just happens sometimes, just like many other things that people are born with. I mean, were your parents autistic? And who cares if you ARE autistic, as long as you are a functioning, loving, productive adult? I just don't see Asperger's as any kind of disability, at least not one that can't be overcome with a lot of work, as you have done. If she holds that against you, then that is her problem, and you definitely DON'T want to be with someone like that.
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