What you want out of life is what you want out of life. Nobody is going to see to it that you're happy but you. If she decides she can't be happy without having her own children without the risk of autism she is perfectly entitled to go try and make that happen. She needs to decide what is more important to her, you or her ideal reproductive future. Ethical or unethical doesn't really matter, it's not going to work anyway if it makes her truly unhappy.
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The advantage law is the best law in rugby, because it lets you ignore all the others for the good of the game.
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