I've never worked at a bar myself, but I'd think seeing people get shit faced all the time and taking the wrong person home every night might drive into you the importance of relative sobriety. While it seems as if you've learned your lesson, I'd like to make sure to say, "Please, don't get drunk unless you're willing and able to live with all the possible consequences."
I'm sure that telling the truth is the right thing to do. You might hurt your chances with boot camp Bella, but would you really want a relationship based on lies? Leave alone for the moment that she'd probably find out...do you really want to base love on untruth? I would hope not.
You seem to be a bright person, so I'm sure you'll make the right decision, both in telling the truth and avoiding becoming blackout, inhibition losing drunk again unless you have someone there sober to restrain you.
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