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Wunderbar · 04-15-2007, 05:40 PM

Ok so here's the story (summarized of course).

I work at a bar, and a former employee of mine comes in to hang out with a bunch of her friends. She brings a friend that I'm immediately attracted to and is attracted to me. We hit it off and see each other again since I'm friends with my former employee.

Her friend goes off to boot camp and I'm extremely sad about it. We write letters to each other non-stop and we talk about becoming a more permanent item (boyfriend/girlfriend) when she gets back. We were inseparable before she left, it really was "love at first sight", so it hurts both of us that she left.

Ok here's where it gets interesting...

One night I'm hanging out with my former employee at a bar with a couple of friends. We get so damned drunk I literally can barely remember the night. I don't ever remember drinking that much before (although that's no excuse I know) and I end up staying the night with the former employee. Nothing happened, we just kissed and fooled around a little bit because we were both curious, but didn't have sex or anything further than just making out.

My problem is, I really want to work it out with the girl at boot camp. She comes back on the 28th and I'm going to pick her up at the airport. I'm going to do what I think to be the right thing here, and tell her what happened because I believe in being upfront and honest.

My question is: did I fuck up my chances at having a relationship with this girl?

04-15-2007, 05:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
Wunderbar Tilted Location: Arizona	Problem situation with "girlfriend"..advice needed. Ok so here's the story (summarized of course). I work at a bar, and a former employee of mine comes in to hang out with a bunch of her friends. She brings a friend that I'm immediately attracted to and is attracted to me. We hit it off and see each other again since I'm friends with my former employee. Her friend goes off to boot camp and I'm extremely sad about it. We write letters to each other non-stop and we talk about becoming a more permanent item (boyfriend/girlfriend) when she gets back. We were inseparable before she left, it really was "love at first sight", so it hurts both of us that she left. Ok here's where it gets interesting... One night I'm hanging out with my former employee at a bar with a couple of friends. We get so damned drunk I literally can barely remember the night. I don't ever remember drinking that much before (although that's no excuse I know) and I end up staying the night with the former employee. Nothing happened, we just kissed and fooled around a little bit because we were both curious, but didn't have sex or anything further than just making out. My problem is, I really want to work it out with the girl at boot camp. She comes back on the 28th and I'm going to pick her up at the airport. I'm going to do what I think to be the right thing here, and tell her what happened because I believe in being upfront and honest. My question is: did I fuck up my chances at having a relationship with this girl? Last edited by Wunderbar; 04-15-2007 at 05:48 PM..