My boyfriend and I don't go all out but I like a little pain and he obliges. We never take it that far though, nothing much can be seen after a day or two.
I figure if both people are consenting I don't see a problem.
One of my guy friends the other day pulled out his phone and showed me a picture of the girl he's sleeping with topless. I wasn't expecting it but it didn't bother me personally. I figure since I'm a girl maybe he thought she wouldn't mind me seeing. He didn't show the picture to my boyfriend who was sitting next to me so I guess that was his thinking.
Guys show off things, in my experience there's not much that you can do to change that except to tell them not to show you personally.
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