I do know where you're coming from boink.
My view is that if two people are both consenting, then what ever they do to get themselves off is fine by me. It might not be my cup of tea, but as long as it's consenting and isn't adversely affecting anyone then It's not my place to judge.
But gloating about it to your workmates and the like is something that really rubs me up the wrong way. I just find it extremely disrespectful to your sexual partner, even if it was just a one night stand. Plus I find that 8/10 people really don't want to know or care. To be perfectly honest I'm just totally over people who think that the amount of people you fuck or how crazy the sex you have is some sort of measure of your character.
As for violence in sex, I just couldn't bring my self to do it. I'm a very passive person, I just can't fathom causing physical harm to someone, even if they're literally asking for it, and especially if I care about them.
It's just me I guess.
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