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so...just yesterday I got to work and a co worker comes over and shows me this pic on his cell phone.

without any disclamers he shows me this shot of a chick w/o her shirt but she's all brused up, like 4-5 bruses around her coller bone area.

seems he found a woman with a fetish/psychosis/desire to roll play a fight or something. I didn't really speak with him about it. I sorta pushed it away and kept working

this is a guy who likes swaping, some cross dressing and he lets his girl friends peg him. he's a 'sport fucker' (his term) lunch time conversation has revealed a fantisy about getting reared by Brad Pitt. (yes, lunch conversation can be interesting where I work)

so, he's adverntuous to say the least. racked up hundreds of notches on his belt in his 37 years(so he says)

anyway...my opinion of him is pritty dang low. IMHO, you just don't hit women. I can see a little roll play, but not bruses like that...not to mention shopping her picture around work for...what ? laughs? pride ? I'd add here that I personally have never been in a fight or thrown a fist in anger. so any attraction to violence is just beyond me.

ladies, be really careful with a new guy and his cell phone, I can't tell you how many times guys show off pics they sneek. to me this seems like a serious breech of trust, which is the bedrock of a relationship imho. I mean, I really don't get it, my gf's have been pritty importiant to me. I can't see sharing naked pics of them like a damn bag of doritos

anyway, I know I have somewhat of a pollyana view of relationships and sex. I'm a one woman guy and I don't go off the wayside really.

I'm not a prude though, I wouldn't judge a dude if he wanted to get pegged by his gf or bf whatever the case may be, but seeing these bruses just gave me the foulest feeling in my gut.

anyone think I'm just too provincial? honestly I wanted to post flyers in his neighborhood as a sexual preditor (no I'm not going to)