First, both of you need to embrace the fact that oral sex is all about the receiver. You need to allow yourself to lay back and just receive. She needs to allow you to receive. She can do a lot of things to let you know that in her words and body language. You can also praise her when she's doing an awesome job, and don't be shy about guiding her in a nice way. Remember most people want to be good at sex and want to please their partner.
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