That's occurred to me, or rather with girls/women that I've been with. Not often. Probably 2-4 times I think. Although it wasn't heavy crying.
I guess - while it scares me a little, it seems ok also. The way I figure it, women have some different emotions and emotional responses to guys. Plus there are some fairly complex things going on emotionally with sex also. Stuff that's hard to fit or to reconcile with day-to-day personalities ideals and roles. That's my take on it.
It's scary initially, until I figure that it's not something I did. But if it's not my fault - it doesn't bother me. We can just cuddle until it passes. No prob.
So I wouldn't worry too much. After all, he's probably having sex with you because of your girly properties. So there's no need to be ashamed of being somewhat different.
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