Let me throw in my few cents worth. If she is not willing to go directly to a counsellor, suggest going to a doctor (GP). There are other ways of getting past depression - not just counselling, though the GP should suggest that anyway.
My wife is also a 'quiet' one. I know she is pissed off about something because she goes all quiet/avoids talking to me. My point here is that you can't let her just run away from all of this. If she really does want this marriage to work, she needs to communicate.
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