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Old 03-30-2007, 12:32 AM   #3 (permalink)
pan6467
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Originally Posted by Dilbert1234567
do you know his name? at least his last?
Oh yeah, I have his High school diploma.

The problem is having contacted the alumni associations from his high school and the military school, not many kept in touch after he graduated... let alone 40 years later. I do however, have his first wife's name (including her maiden name.)

For security reasons I'm not going to just blurt out his name or high school or military school.

One thing of interest as I am searching, one person said he stood up as my father's best man in fall 1967 in Austin, Texas. According to that source, my father's wife died shortly and my father told him he was going to Argentina, the source doesn't know anything after that they lost contact.

However, another military school alumni, tells me in the fall of 1967, he went to a Tech school with my father.

Yet, when my father looked us up in 1972, he claimed to be a divorced lawyer (having graduated from Rice, but they don't have a law school.... so maybe she had the school wrong or he lied.) with 2 kids living somewhere in the South. Rice does not have a public alumni list.

So as you can see, this is a mess. My mother says that my father was shady and it wouldn't surprise her if he had been intoi some crime type lifestyle.

The only man my mom knew that knew my father and DID keep in touch with him, was murdered in a drug deal in 1983. He was a big shot, and his unsolved murder was bigtime news back then.

I couldn't make any of this up if I tried..... I'm looking for him because I want some form of closure and I just would like to know him. The scariest part is.... he may not want to be found and if I do find him... I may end up regretting it and it turns out not so good. But on the other hand it could turn out great.

I did do the SS# thingy that checks by name if a person is dead.... according to that he is alive.

I've done prison matches.... there was a man with his first and last name with same middle initial realesed from prison in 2001, however, that man is 7 years too young, UNLESS the age given was the age of con upon release... then it would be a match and a possibility. But I think the age they give is present age.

I've Googled, Yahooed, Dogpiled, Ask.commmed, and so on his name and I don't get much.....

Anyway, I ramble if anyone has any ideas please please let me know, IM me or drop me an e mail. I am becoming desparate and yes it is consuming me because it has become a mystery I truly feel the need to solve.

The deeper I delve into it, the weirder it gets. It's almost like this guy led multiple lives in that era and doesn't want to be found by anyone now.
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