The key thing is honest open communication and lots of it.
She's cheated in every respect but sx - and she's upset her husband in the process.
If she had been banging a co-worker, you'd hardly be praising her forbearance if she cut back to only blowjobs would you?
She's behaving in a loving way to him, and you are happy that she's cut back.
She is not being honest with you or herself.
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Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
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