Your story is my story, with two exceptions - we'd already had the baby but you've only just got pregnant; and my wife didn't tell me about the online friend until after she fucked him.
In our case, it ended well.
We got a divorce.
I say well, because the truth is that on reflection, I am so much better off out of that marriage, and so is my ex-wife.
The sad thing is that your wife has ALREADY chucked out your marriage with the trash; she just hasn't admitted it to you (or maybe even to herself).
She's told you she doesn't feel love for you, she's given up on sex, she's spending every waking hour in deep communion with another man.
I expect that it will not be long before she asks for some time to visit Ken in order to "expolre her feelings" or that she will tell you she needs time alone to think about stuff. Assuming that Ken lives close enough, she's almost certainly fucked him already, or at the very least had phone sex.
I know it hurts to think that, but chances are she allowed you to impregnate her because she was internally paying for her infidelity by doing the thing that only spouses ought to do - and that she found it didn't make her love you all over again.
Heavy duty counselling and removing her contact with Ken might give you a future, but I wouldn't bet my own money on the prospect.
Sorry, and good luck.
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