Wow! On some levels it sounds so strange, yet we've all probably gone through this sort of thing during one relationship or another but in your case it appears terminal without A) both parties willing to get to work on the issues and B) without outside intervention (i.e., counselling).
There seem to be a whole slew of issues at play, and if you want it to work and want to raise the child together, you'll have to get some help.
I think it is impossible to sit here and say much beyond this: we are only reading it from your perspective, which means we only get 50% of the story and 50% of the emotions.
Good luck, don't delay in getting help.
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