The only virgin I ever had sex with didn't bleed when we had sex the first time.
As far as pleasing her, oral. In the sexual sense and the communication sense. Try stuff, with her permission, and see what she likes.
As far as anal goes, key is taking it slow and work your way up to full on anal sex. Talking about licking, fingers, toys, etc. and lots of lube. Also, if she isn't comfortable with it, she will never enjoy it.
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