Many girls have their hymen broken during sports growing up, in fact the number of ways it can be broken prior to their first time is pretty high, so don't be surprised.
Give oral a go around, search here for the threads here that talk about it, then ask her if she is ok with it. Oral can be pretty satisfying for the male partner, in fact sometimes I prefer it. Also, if you're seriously interesting in learning how your girl works, check out
www.clitical.com, especially the "for guys" link on the left.