awwww, Cali
Actually, when I first started thinking about a threesome with the man I am seeing now and another woman, I didn't think I'd be able to watch him fuck another woman. It wasn't the kissing for me, although I'm sure I would have felt the same way about it...it was sexual intercourse that made me want to bust out crying, lol. But as time has passed, I feel much more secure about the whole thing. I know how he feels about me. I feel secure in that so the thought of bringing another woman in is more purely sexual than it was before. It also helps to know that he feels the same way about bringing another man into the scenario. He doesn't hold a double standard on the issue. We love each other and are so excited to have found partners in each other that are so perfectly
apropos, in many ways, not just sexually. There's little jealousy or fear in our thinking about it. At least that's how it is in my head. The bets could all be called off once it actually happened, who knows. I do believe, at any rate, it would have to be something we both considered and planned very carefully.