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I haven't, but would definitely be open to it. I'd rather be involved with two people I'm not in a relationship with, rather than my boyfriend and a third. I wouldn't be up for an all out swap with my boyfriend for a few reasons: I have a jealous streak (wish I didn't), I'd feel guilty (even though he'd be fully aware of the situation), and I just feel like it would change the relationship. We've talked about bring another person or couple into our play a lot, though, and I think it could happen someday if the opportunity were to arise. I like abaya's 2+1 scenario, in particular.
This thread and the potential lesbian thread got me wondering: How do those of you who have had these experiences meet the people you have them with? Is there a safe and relatively unsketchy way to meet like-minded people?
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