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Ilow · 03-25-2007, 08:12 PM

I don't want to come of as blunt or attempting crude humor, but it seems as though she may be a lesbian. It frankly sounds like she could go without the male affection/sex indefinitely. You did not really say if this was a new thing or had been going on since the beginning of the relationship. If something changed that is different than if it was always like this (in which case you probably entered the marriage hoping it would change). Either way you are not being needy, some level (that ideally is satisfactory to each of you) of intimacy is expected/required in pretty much all healthy relationships.

03-25-2007, 08:12 PM	#4 (permalink)
Ilow Junkie Location: Pats country	I don't want to come of as blunt or attempting crude humor, but it seems as though she may be a lesbian. It frankly sounds like she could go without the male affection/sex indefinitely. You did not really say if this was a new thing or had been going on since the beginning of the relationship. If something changed that is different than if it was always like this (in which case you probably entered the marriage hoping it would change). Either way you are not being needy, some level (that ideally is satisfactory to each of you) of intimacy is expected/required in pretty much all healthy relationships. __________________ "Religion is the one area of our discourse in which it is considered noble to pretend to be certain about things no human being could possibly be certain about" --Sam Harris