I have gone to a therapist since mid-January to discuss being angry, upset, and confused over her sexuality, and lack of closeness. I have had numerous lengthy discussions about the same. She keeps returning to "I'm just not a touchy-feely person." I just don't buy it anymore, when I see couples all around me able to show affection. I'm not saying we have to grope each other at every moment, but we can spend some quality time together.
She met with my therapist last week, then I meet with him this week, maybe once more after that. Then we are likely to both go. My only hope is that she can finally understand where I'm coming from. If not, there's not much hope for any real affection.
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