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I think the answer to this is somewhat obvious, although I empathize with your desire to ask it. A typical loving relationship between two people does not establish normals that low.
If the online relationship was a secret, I imagine you must have really felt betrayed. That, coupled with the lack of intimacy sure makes me worry that her feelings for you have changed.
How much have you talked to her about this? Not begged for cuddling time, but just talked objectively (to the maximum extent possible) about the concerns you both have?
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