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Originally Posted by BlackKittyKat
i agree with bluedot.
it's not easy to tell someone that you would rather be their friend then their lover. Be honest and talk to her. Rather you talk to her now than later.
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It must not be too hard, girls tell me that all the time. lol
Anyway, I agree with what everyone has already said. When you're dating with the intention of finding someone for a long-term relationship, then you shouldn't settle for someone who you don't find attractive both inside and out. It's not that you're shallow -- because you obviously DO consider things like personality, sense of humor, and morals -- but you want someone who has the whole package... and that is completely normal and justified.
And I know you really WANT someone to date, but the worst thing you could do is try and force it or drag things out. If you're not attracted to her but still want to be friends, then just tell her... she may never want to talk to you again, but maybe she feels the same way.