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neflyte,
um...how did y'all start dating in the first place? i don't think its shallow at all. i think if that's all you cared about - well, maybe that's shallow. in my understanding, most people want to date other people who reflect their self image, values etc. i don't think there's anything "wrong" with wanting to be physically attracted to the person you're dating. for me, if i find her ugly - well, that's a non-starter for a romantic relationship. that's why you call them friends. do what you feel is right, of course - but i don't even see the conflict here.
have you been sleeping with this girl, and now you have to break it to her that you're just not that into it? if so, then welcome to the minefield my friend. suck it up and get out now, because its just going to get worse. usually the way you say it is some version "this isn't working for me; i'm just not feeling it." then she gets pissed off and hurt, like we all do, and the friendship usually dies. maybe you pick it up after a bit, but for a little while you won't be hanging out. get your cds now.
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