Maybe you are shallow, but one still needs to be physically attracted to their partner.
But this is what the dating phase is all about. See if maybe getting to know her better makes you re-evaluate things...or not.
I will point out that one can lose their looks. Either over time, or in an accident or whatever. But those other things tend to last. Also...she deserves to be with someone who full-on appreciates her.
Eh, I'd say you were shallow if you didn't even give her (or yourself) a chance, wouldn't even date her or bother to get to know her. How's that?
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
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