shallow?.. I'm not sure I would call it that. How about normal??... Is it really fair to YOU (numbero uno, first and foremost..well you get my drift) to push aside something that you feel you gotta have in a relationship?.. NO.. And don't let "society" tell you that just because you don't find a woman physically attractive that your a "bad" person.. pure bullshit. I know for myself I need to feel that level of physical attraction or theres no way the relationship is going to last for the long haul. You can deny it all you want to yourself, but one day its going to rear its ugly head. Don't let it happen when your 5 years in marriage with two kids and you find yourself sneaking away to the local hotel to meet up with the hot young receptionist. well the details may vary but you get my drift..