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It actually has a name. The condition is known as "retarded ejaculation". Don't laugh, thats really what its called. Its the exact opposite of premature ejaculation. Once you know what it is, you can start looking into what caused it. No, its probably not the porn. For me, its intimacy issues. I must trust the woman I'm with, if I don't, then I can't perform. Once I've settled down into the relationship things start to go much better. The more relaxed I become the easier it gets. Working yourself up over it is not going to help your case any. Accept it, relearn what makes you tick and why you aren't ticking (2 and 1/2 years is a long time). If she is cool with it, then great. The real problem comes when you feel like crap because you can't perform, and she feels like crap because she can't get you off. Now you are both feeling like there is something wrong with you. Shoulder the blame and don't get frustrated, it will work out in time.
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