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can you be her friend for a while? she's in a sticky situation; i would relax the emphasis on being "together" and focus on just being "there for her." it seems to me that you're making this a little more drastic than you need to. she knows she's in a dicey situation. so do you. don't ignore it.
in the meantime, i would observe her behavior and reflect on her behavior in previous relationships; people sometimes change once they're "involved." i would educate myself on herpes beyond anything you find on these boards. from what i know, it has some affect on your life expectancy, but if you stay together, its manageable. if you don't...
so be friends. evaluate.
at some point you have to make that decision; but you've had a lot of knowledge dropped on you in a hurry, and given current circumstances, i don't think you really have to make an immediate decision.
you'll be there for her. in what sense you'll be there, time will tell.
good luck.
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