| There's some excellent advice here, I'm not sure if I have much to add.but here goes:
 Just be good to her.  If she's the one, don't worry.  Your situation isn't unique.  Lot of people run into this one.  I lost a relationship several years ago partly because of length and significant bleeding on my part.  It doesn't sound like you're running into these sorts of problems - just width.  Women are made to expand.  How else would babies be born?  C-sections aren't THAT common.
 
 Just focus on her having a good time.  Lube is a life-saver, too - but making her orgasm before you go in will ease things up significantly.  If she thinks you're the one, as you think she is - you can work through this.  Good luck - and have fun.
 
				__________________"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
 
 "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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