Weight loss won't help. You need time, and lube, and patience, and several sessions for her to sort of get used to and adjust to you. She needs to stretch a little - just like you can't touch your toes on the first try, without slowly building up the stretchiness until you are able to.
Also, explore with your fingers a lot - find out her dimensions, what it is that hurts - length or width? If it's length, there's not much you can do, but to be careful not to go too deep. If it's width, the stretching stuff will eventually help.
Hope that helps.
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