5 is, in my humble opinion, way too young for religion. I am going to wait myself in allowing my daughter to attend churches until she is about 11 or 12. When a child is 5 years old, his or her brain is still in early development. Often, children this age can have things like imaginary friends, fear of specters or the dark, and such. While children that age do have some rudimentary intuitive grasp of logical concepts, but is still very much crude. Also, it is very, very easy for children this age to believe in magical increase, decrease, and disappearance. In other words, their reality is growing, but is not by any means solid. As perceptions dominate judgment and not the other way around yet, in my opinion a child of 0-8 or 9 would be unable to make a reasonable decision about the nature of the universe, be it theological or otherwise.
If you're interested in teaching your child morals, the Bible or other religious texts can be useful. Parables can be effective tools so far as instilling a sense of right and wrong. Also, you can filter out the good morals in the Bible (golden rule) vs. the bad morals (genocide).
This is still the preoperational period and as such should be treated with great care.
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