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jRuntlets · 03-12-2007, 06:33 PM

Hey gals!
Lately I've gone on three dates... in the past two months, with two different guys. I'm beginning to wonder if there's something wrong with me or the guys I've gone out with have been complete morons. Can some of you give me some insight here?

-Keep in mind. I'm 21, I go to college, I am self employed doing two different jobs, I have my own interests, and I'm self sufficent.

Guy 1 - We had chatted a bit prior to him asking me out. We went out and had a spactular time. After the date we talked through out our busy week. He was going out of town the next weekend and set up a date for the following Monday. He even decided what to do/where to go. He said for me to call him when I was finished with school and we'd go out. I called, no answer, left a message... no call back. However, we do frequent the same club and all he does is LOOK at me! He's been telling friends that I stood him up. I find it really hard to believe that my caller ID number and my message disappeared.

Guy 2- A blind date that went famously. We ended up talking about anything and everything and found that we have similar interests. At the end of the date he set up the second date a week later. Date two goes extremely well, he takes me home and there's the awkward "I want to kiss you" aura which he eventually calls me later in the evening to say that he didn't want to seem like he was jumping the gun by making a move. He says we'll go out later in the week to a specific place. No call to schedule. Nothing.

Am I just hit with bad luck? Personally, I don't care about the guys themselves just the fact that people are too stupid to say they're not interested. What's going on here?

03-12-2007, 06:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
jRuntlets Crazy	Men? Boys? I'm thinking the second. Hey gals! Lately I've gone on three dates... in the past two months, with two different guys. I'm beginning to wonder if there's something wrong with me or the guys I've gone out with have been complete morons. Can some of you give me some insight here? -Keep in mind. I'm 21, I go to college, I am self employed doing two different jobs, I have my own interests, and I'm self sufficent. Guy 1 - We had chatted a bit prior to him asking me out. We went out and had a spactular time. After the date we talked through out our busy week. He was going out of town the next weekend and set up a date for the following Monday. He even decided what to do/where to go. He said for me to call him when I was finished with school and we'd go out. I called, no answer, left a message... no call back. However, we do frequent the same club and all he does is LOOK at me! He's been telling friends that I stood him up. I find it really hard to believe that my caller ID number and my message disappeared. Guy 2- A blind date that went famously. We ended up talking about anything and everything and found that we have similar interests. At the end of the date he set up the second date a week later. Date two goes extremely well, he takes me home and there's the awkward "I want to kiss you" aura which he eventually calls me later in the evening to say that he didn't want to seem like he was jumping the gun by making a move. He says we'll go out later in the week to a specific place. No call to schedule. Nothing. Am I just hit with bad luck? Personally, I don't care about the guys themselves just the fact that people are too stupid to say they're not interested. What's going on here? __________________ Horses come and go, but some leave permanent hoof prints on your life.