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Originally Posted by dalnet22
Yeah, I think it's a bigger problem than me thinking what they do is boring. My mom won't even go outside to plant a garden because she hates how she looks. She's worried people will see her. As for dad, she sticks around simply because of the money he offers. There can't be any other reason.
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Some older married couples fight & argue and still love one another. Others cant stand each other, and just cant seem to find a way out. I cant say whats up with your parents because I dont know them, all I have to go on is a few sentences on a message board. I'm not sure what your mom finds so unattractive about herself but there are plenty of things that can be done. She could exercise inside the house, if she doesnt want to go outside. Sometimes cosmetic surgery is an option. As far as money, a divorce could be very equitable for her side, so staying in a marriage for that reason isnt a great one.
Maybe the move to a new place will once again spark their interest in something new, I hope so. I would only advocate divorce to people with truley ireconcilable differences, but thats not your choice anyway. Thats up to them. Good Luck and no matter what happens, continue to be interested in your parents happiness. I like that about you!
