^^^ that is too adorable, the way you said "my husband"...it must feel so awesome to say that after being together for so long and now finally married
anyway, that was just me going off the point for a bit and being all girly and marriagey
but, i can honestly say that there were times i thought healer and i would not make it at all. with all the fighting, mostly caused by all my insecurities, i really didn'nt think it would last.
but, he fought hard and so did i. we talked everyday. and with technology what it is today, there's no stopping you from talking and communicating all the time.
it meant the world to me that he tried as best he could to make me realise that he was always "coming home" to me. and i'm sure it will mean the world to her too.
you just need to fight. and i can promise you now that you'll get fed up with it and so will she...you will get lonely and so will she.
it makes me sad to know that there are people out there who go without their SO for so long. it breaks my heart to know that you guys are having so much trouble...mostly because i know how hard it is.
because, honestly, it shouldn't have to be that hard. am i right? but if you really mean the world to each other and really believe that you are meant to be together, then i don't see why your relationship won't grow stronger.
healer always used to tell me, even before he left, that this would be the foundation of our relationship and our love for one another...and back then, i thought he was talking a whole lot of bull because i couldn't see myself being without him...in fact, i still can't see myself without him, but now i see that he was actually quite wise in saying that and telling me that because now i believe that there is nothing that can tear us apart.
no matter how big or small the argument, no matter how long we go without speaking to each other because of that argument, i know we'll always get through it.
so, just hang in their love...i'll keep both you and your gf in my prayers and thoughts.
-mandy-