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Not Getting It
Originally, I loved having sex with my male partner (I'm bisexual) All of summer (two years ago) life was good. Very casual and relaxed and laid back. But for some reason, I've been less and less horny. Understandable with school, but even last summer, I just haven't been into it. He's bought me toys and ropes but I'm just not interested, not even in masturbation. I don't know, sex isn't normally satisfying anymore. During that great summer we had sex multiple times, so it didn't matter if I was satisfied on the first go, but now its one go and he's done. So, in curiosity, I asked him what his goal was during sex, and he told me that it was to finish, to finish me, I asked naively, you can guess the answer. So, now we don't have sex for two reasons; I'm not horny and he isn't willing to make me horny. And he's frustrated with me! Is there any way to make this all better? I mean I enjoy having sex, when I am not left unsatisfied. Can this be fixed, or will we both continue to be frustrated? (Sorry most of this is a rant, but advice is appreciated)
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