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shoe · 03-07-2007, 08:22 AM

Me and my girl have been going at it for about 2 and a half years now. I am 21 and she is 20. Recently she has brought up a point saying that she's unhappy.

Here's the situation.. I just started a new job meaning i have alot of financial restrictions. I work 4 days a week, got to school full time, have no car, had a film to shoot this whole semester, live in an apartment and basically have a ton of stuff to think and stress about. This may have caused me to neglect my girlfriend a little. We live in different cities so a car is almost necessary to visit. She understand that we may not be able to see each other as much as back in the days i lived with my parents and had access to a car but she tells me she is unhappy about the fact that everything is always the same. She said that because we cant see each other as much we should concentrate in making how we communicate to each other a priority. She needs me to use different and original ways to make her feel loved when we are apart.

I cant spend any money and i have little time to myself. I didn't know what to tell her. When we are together it's great but its just we cannot be together these days as much as we are apart.

I would love to make her happy again but apparently what i am doing is not enough anymore. Help?

03-07-2007, 08:22 AM	#1 (permalink)
shoe Crazy Location: Montreal , Quebec	GF coming in second Me and my girl have been going at it for about 2 and a half years now. I am 21 and she is 20. Recently she has brought up a point saying that she's unhappy. Here's the situation.. I just started a new job meaning i have alot of financial restrictions. I work 4 days a week, got to school full time, have no car, had a film to shoot this whole semester, live in an apartment and basically have a ton of stuff to think and stress about. This may have caused me to neglect my girlfriend a little. We live in different cities so a car is almost necessary to visit. She understand that we may not be able to see each other as much as back in the days i lived with my parents and had access to a car but she tells me she is unhappy about the fact that everything is always the same. She said that because we cant see each other as much we should concentrate in making how we communicate to each other a priority. She needs me to use different and original ways to make her feel loved when we are apart. I cant spend any money and i have little time to myself. I didn't know what to tell her. When we are together it's great but its just we cannot be together these days as much as we are apart. I would love to make her happy again but apparently what i am doing is not enough anymore. Help?