I'ts not the orgasm she is regretting, it's the strain on her marriage. And just because your socks are rocked by the same sex doesn't make you gay. This was the first strain I read all the way through and I have to say I am really impressed with the intelligence on this board.
Personally, I can see his side too, but that doesn't make it right. He's feeling insecure and you'll probably just have to weather through it. Men want to know you're happy and when they think they aren't the ones making them happy that damages their thinking. At least that's what I"ve been told. The men on here will have to chime in on that.
I wouldn't invite her back, I would wait for him to suggest it. Hopefully he'll be able to overcome his concerns and realize the potential. Then he can bring her back, learn and ya'll can move on. Don't give up and keep faith, it's obvious you love him!
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