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I am a firm believer in communication and if he is not willing to listen its going to be very difficult. People need to be able to discuss their sexual wants and needs with their partner as easily as they discuss what they want for dinner.
I was the same as you....a one O girl and you'd better get away from me once I'd had because of the sensitivity. I thought multi orgasmic women were lying lol G-spot O's? yeah right that was going to happen in my life time.
Then I met Dave (who is my husband now). The first time we had sex I had 3 (including the ever absent G-spot one) I thought I'd died and gone to heaven....I also thought it would never happen again.
Now...while this does not happen every single time we have sex, and I still have the "get the hell away from my pussy" moments....it HAS happened many many times in the last 3 1/2 years.
He needs to be made to understand its not a shortcoming on his part, he just needs to understand what makes you "tick". His refusal on that part IS his shortcoming. Any relationship counselor is going to tell him he needs to listen to your wants/needs and not look at it as a pesonal attack, but an educational discussion to make your sex life better
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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