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I've been thinking about posting something here for a while, and I guess I finally will. I've had some experience with this scenario, probably too much of it. About 7 years ago, I found myself suddenly dating a woman that I'd always found very intriguing but who had never seemed interested in me. She even asked me out. The first few dates were fun but not over the top (in terms of price), and she started to let me know that she expected more fuss to be made over her, especially in terms of where we went to eat and presents (and the fact I hadn't bought her anything from Tiffany's yet). It turns out that one of my friends gave her an idea of how much money I made, which is something that you probably wouldn't know when you meet me. Since mine was several multiples of her salary, she apparently saw me as a cash cow and a path to an all new wardrobe. She told that same friend that she was willing to sleep with me in order to get stuff and go places. The sad fact is that she wasn't good in bed, and by the time all this got back to me, I'd already dumped her.
You can't hide shallow. I'd look deeper with this girl and see if there's anything below the surface. Beauty is fleeting but manipulative and bitchy are forever.
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