Cheap Like Me...
Today, my SO and I had a small argument. I ranted about her, she ranted about me, it was good and productive.
Her main complaints stemmed from me being cheap. To be honest, I was a little surprised to hear what she said, for two reasons. One, of all the many problems I have, she decided to complain about me being cheap. Two, I never really thought I was cheap, but she went on and on about how I do not spend enough money on her. So this is my big issue. How can I not be cheap, specifically?
(Ok, those of you who are thinking, she's a gold digger, read on. Maybe true, but the issue seems to be more about the fact that her peers see that I don't spend as much money on her as their SOs. So it's kind of like a pissing contest that she is losing, and she doesn't like that.
This thread is specifically about how not to look cheap. Thanks.)
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