Impetuous1

Definitely stay away from her. I've also been there. With the genders reversed. I foolishly put up with that kind of behavior for way too long. All it brought me was pain, paranoia and self-doubt. He told me I was a jealous person and being very paranoid. I stupidly started to buy into that reasoning. He also did the collage thing and even though we had been dating for over a year I was not in it. So yeah, run fast and far. It was a very hard lesson to learn but I am never going through that again. Life's too short to put up with other people's games (though she may not realize that she is playing games). It's your life and you can help others to decide how you want to be treated.