Originally Posted by Gilda

Male doms and female subs are far more common, according to what I've read. On the men's side, it seems that there are plenty of guys who'd be willing to be a sub (men are in general far more sexually adventurous), but a distinct shortage of women who get off on being dommes, while female subs seldom have difficulty finding a guy to dominate them if that's what they're into. The tricky part is finding a guy who knows what he's doing and respects his sub so that it doesn't become abuse.