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To clarify: we've talked off an on over the years, but our relationship had been so passionate that when it ended, it ended with a heavy sour note in the air, and it's taken years to clear the air of it. She claims she has no emotional issues about it, and says' she's happy that it was with someone she loved, etc. So i don't think it's a mental thing. She said she didnt have sex for a year afterward, so any tearing would have healed by then. I don't know how to apporach her about this though, she isnt trying to BLAME me, but i feel it's important for both of us to figure it out, especialy if in her mind I'm the cause of her pain. I sent her a message asking if she's seen a doctor, I would assume so for normal female gyno visits...
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