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Originally Posted by Ambiguity
she just said it hurts to have sex now, and blames there not being enough lube the first time. And if there was any tearing, i would imagine there would be bleeding? (of which there wasn't)
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There wouldn't necessarily be any blood with a vaginal tear, but it would heal on its own simply by abstaining from sex for some time, the amount of time depending on the severity.
Abaya might be on to something. This sounds like it might be a psychological problem. If there is currently pain for her, it's more likely something that's either a chronic problem she already had your first time, or there was an intervening cause. It would be very difficult to tell from what little you've given us.
Her best course of action would be to see her gynecologist.