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Pain during sex.
I was recently contacted by an exgirlfriend from when I was 17. (22 now) She and I lost our virginity to each other, very sweet, but very inexperienced when it happened.
Well, apparently she blames me for her having pain duing sex now because of the "lack of lubrication" during our first time. Which was way more than consentual and very much both our idea. She wasn't very wet, but niether of us really knew all about that at the time. I was very gentle, and it didn't last very long (we stopped b/c of something unrelated).
Needless to say, it's a heavy wieght on my mind to think there's a woman out there who can't enjoy sex because we didn't use enough lube our first time. (and only time) Is this possible? For a girl to have sex the first time, not be wet enough, and hereafter have pain as a direct result?
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